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There are some fantastic sex toys for couples in long distance relationships, and the field keeps getting better and better.
Now, right off the bat, most people, including you, already have a pretty fantastic long distance sex toy, and it might be the thing you’re using to read this piece. That’s right, your phone is a wonderful sex toy for long distance play. Phone tech has moved so quickly and gotten so much better from when the authors of this were dating. Back then it was grainy, pixelated pictures sent on flip phones with cutting edge cameras. Now, there’s Facetime and WhatsApp and a ton of other ways for couples to see each other and play together no matter where they are. Get creative, have fun, and get turned on.
If you’re ready to jump into a sex toy that is controlled by your long distance partner, here are some great options. When looking into a toy, you want to make sure it has enough vibration power, is easy to use both on its own in ‘dummy mode’ and via the app, it's discreet, and offers up long-distance control. Here are some options that we’ve used and that we think you’ll appreciate.
Satisfyer has a number of fun vibrators, the Smooth Petal being one of them, that can be controlled via their Satisfyer Control App. The way it works is pretty simple, you download the app, and once you’ve given the green light, they can control you through built-in video calls, voice calls, and chat. Of all the long-distance toys we’ve used, Satisfyer Connect is the most visually appealing, easy-to-use, and feature-full. It’s really easy to use, and Satisfyer prices their toys at a really affordable range, making this a good starting point. The Smooth Petal can be used both internally and externally, so if you’re not a fan of G-Spot play there’s no need to worry. This was primarily how I used the toy, and it was really exciting to have him tease me with vibrations as I dangled the toy over my clit, then pulled it away.
Lovense Gush 2 looks like a silicone cannoli shell. On its own, without the bells and whistles of long-distance play, the Lovense Gush 2 is a fun and totally capable vibrating male sex toy. Sign into the app and give controls to your partner and now you’re cooking with gas. The sleeve is open, and can accommodate larger, more girthier penises, so it’s a great option for that crowd. The Lovense line is HUGE, so if there’s something else you had in mind, they probably have it ready for you.
KEON2 from Kiiroo is finally shipping and it's well worth the wait. The controls of this thing are so easy to use, the Feeliate App is one of the smoothest ones on the market, and KEON will connect to your partner's mobile device as well as to their vibrator, wherever they might be. We’ve been using the original KEON for years now, and whenever she is on the road for business she’ll take her Kiiroo Pearl along and we’ll have mutual sessions from afar. There’s something insanely cool about watching her slide her vibrator in and out of her body and the toy resting on my cock reacting in real time. There are a ton of other cool features, it’s definitely one of our favorites.
The Handy2 is another long distance gem, a stroker for men that as of publishing this piece, might be the most insanely cool interactive sex toy for men that’s on the market. The sleeves are insane, the speed and controls are impressive, but the ability to sync the Handy2 up to your favorite content, or hand control of the toy to a partner is just so simple and so much fun, we had to include this one on our list.
We-Vibe has been making great sex toys for years, and their We-Vibe Moxie+ for women and the We-Vibe Verge 2 for men are great wearable options that you can take for walks in the park or a night on the town, of course keeping in mind that not everyone wants to hear or see you getting off, so make certain that when or if you use these in public you keep others in mind. We’ve used these on road trips and had just so much fun. Getting out of the car and stretching your legs takes on a whole different tone when someone is controlling a sex toy attached to or resting near a very sensitive part of your body. We-Vibe’s app is easy to use, and offers the option of playing together in person or together from a long distance.
I hope this was somewhat helpful. There are some other great options out there that we didn’t mention, if you have any questions about them feel free to drop them below and we’ll do our best to get back to you. As I mentioned before, using sex toys in public is a ton of fun and a thrill for sure but it's not something that everyone wants to see or hear. Use these toys responsibly if you decide to take your fun out of the privacy of your home, hotel room, or dormitory. It’s also worth going back to the original, cost-effective sex toy, your cell phone. All of the fun, high-tech toys are worth every penny they cost, but you can have just as much fun masturbating together without the expensive toys over Facetime.
Again, hope this piece helped a bit, hope you have a lovely day and would love to know what you think!